Hello there, creating another tread to annoy you people again. :icon_wink Just came here to ask how sexual attraction really feels like to you with and without the romance attraction blending with it. Could you at least try to describe it? Is it always something so strong that it's hard for you to control it or it varies? Thanks for you attention.
Basically, I suppose It's feeling like you get hot everywhere (physically and mentally) and that you'd really like to do things with that person. But as a "demisexual" here I don't understand the concept of "without romantic attraction blending in" either! I have to be in love with someone to find them sexually appealing.
My "sexual attraction" for guys really kicked in after I started to work for a gym. Basically it's looking at someone and wanting to have sex with them, looking at their body could turn you on physically. Also, just want to mention the control thing; sometimes I feel like some kind of lusty animal is taking over lol. I'm also more demisexual with other women.
Basically what Browneyedgirl said. There's a feeling of strong want, probably similar to the want of spending time with someone in a romantic relationship; except with lust, it feels more uncontrollable and impulsive. It varies depending on the person... That's just how it is to me, though. Sorry I can't explain it any better, it's rather hard.