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Could I really be a lesbian, rather than pan?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Techno Kid, Jun 21, 2014.

  1. Techno Kid

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    Before I realized I was a girl I thought I was pansexual, but romantically into males. Now I'm thinking that that might of been because I did not want to be a man in a relationship with a girl. Now when I think of my future partner, the idea of a female makes me much more comfortable. I have never been attracted to masculinity in the slightest and the guys I like are always on the femme or twinky/younger side. I don't really like penis much either, not that either set of genitals are that pretty... but I would take vagina over penis. *Just Saying*

    Do I sound more like a lesbian to you guys? :3
     
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    It's hard to tell just from what you wrote here, but it's possible.
     
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    I agree with yuri .
    when you were talking about feminine men are you talking about men who are so feminine they can past for women and do you like them for their looks or either looks and both a sexual way ?:confused:
     
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    Pretty much ones who could pass as a girl. lol I do get sexual and other feelings though... at least I think I do... :confused:
     
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    You could possibly be lesbian , I use to think I was bisexual because I liked men who could pass for women that and porn (not taking about trans girls by the way I meant gay porn )
     
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    Yeah that sounds familiar to me too... :icon_redf

    I should also add that I would not be able to find an older man attractive, but I could possibly find an older woman attractive. That says something to me since I could never see the big deal about say Brad Pitt...
     
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    Omg same here :icon_bigg
     
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    lol yup! We should be sisters. :3
     
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    Yeah (!)
     
  10. FireSmoke

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    Probable.

    But who cares? When the right person will meet you, you'll know the correct answer.