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Who is attracted to you?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Mino, Jun 23, 2014.

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  1. Mino

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    Who hits on you most? And do you think there is a correlation between getting hit on by one or both genders (in frequency) and your sexual orientation?
    E.g. you're gay and get mostly hit on by the same sex, you're straight and get mostly hit on by the opposite sex, you're bi and it's nearly even?
    No correlation at all?

    What do you think?
     
    #1 Mino, Jun 23, 2014
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    The only thing which hits on me is my neighbours cat. >.<
     
    #2 Yosia, Jun 23, 2014
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    No one. Except that one flirty guy who hits on everyone, but I think he's straight, so that doesn't count either.

    I think my hens are attracted to me though. They can't resist my suave food cologne.
     
    #3 Nychthemeron, Jun 23, 2014
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    Since I look straight, I get hit on by a lot of guys, unfortunately.
     
    #4 Sarah2695, Jun 23, 2014
  5. Jay47

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    Lots of straight girls who think I'm a guy.... Until I speak. Sometimes gay guys, but not very often.
    Never any lesbians. Even with a big honkin' rainbow bracelet on.
     
    #5 Jay47, Jun 23, 2014
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    Occasionally guys, rarely girls. It really seems to depend on what I'm wearing.
     
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    I'm lesbian and I get hit on by straight men the most. Only 2women but that was because they knew I'm a lesbian
     
    #7 stocking, Jun 23, 2014
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    Only two people - A somewhat "metrosexual" guy who seems to joke a little much about gayness for it to be a coincidence (not sure if he's actually hitting on me), and a cis but not-too-girly girl who seems to think I'm the greatest person ever (I feel really bad for her, It's not that I don't like her but I'm sort of taken...)
     
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    Just a few guys. People usually think that I'm beautiful, but I'm not very interesting, I guess. So I don't get hit on very often.
     
    #9 Nightdream, Jun 23, 2014
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    Guys guys and only guys :frowning2:
     
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    A little off topic, but might I just say... We need to start rallying everyone to be the ones who get the ball rolling in a relationship! If all the not-straight people just hope for someone to come along, no one ever will.
     
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    No one. Then again, I don't really notice those kinds of things
     
    #12 Toast8971, Jun 23, 2014
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    Nobody :grin:.
     
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    For me, only guys... well, as far as I've noticed. I don't normally notice when someone is interested in me. :confused:
     
    #14 YuriBunny, Jun 23, 2014
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    I think mostly guys hit on me and 1 girl.:wink:
     
    #15 biffle50, Jun 23, 2014
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    LMFAO!! I'm in a similar situation... No one ever hits on me anymore.
     
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    Guys for the most part. I occasionally have women flirt but nothing that I would describe as hitting on me. For that it's only guys.
     
    #17 OGS, Jun 23, 2014
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    god girls never leave me alone there is this girl who works in the cafeteria and she always run whenever i go on a table she like makes a circle around my table and asks me every 5 minutes if i need anything or what so ever
    also some guys just less than girls but its just eye contact thats all nothing more but its happening more often these days idk why
    i did wink for some guy at a bus once
    he was so cute he waved and smiled at me when i looked at his window when i got out
     
    #18 joshy the queen, Jun 23, 2014
  19. laurenc

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    guys on tumblr,and women who are way older then me ,no girls around my age seem to find me attractive :frowning2:
     
    #19 laurenc, Jun 23, 2014
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    I mostly just get hit on (or flirt with) by girls. There's the occasional guy that strikes up a conversation, but they may just be friendly. I doubt they're interested in more than a conversation or friendship at most, although I must admit I'm quite oblivious to guys' flirting.
    Plus, I 'look' and act very straight, so I doubt I seem very approachable for guys anyway.
     
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