I have read on this site that porn is not a good indicator of sexual orientation. And I enjoy watching gay porn, straight porn, and occasionally lesbian porn. However, I was able to masturbate to a fantasy today without porn (which I never do). And it was about a hot guy in my class. How much does this factor into my sexual orientation? Does this mean that I'm gay for sure?
Kinda went through the same thing in high school. I used to fantasized about the hot girls and once in a while the boys I secretly liked creeped into my fantasies and it felt taboo and exciting to bring them in, I realized girls didn't do it for me as much anymore. Thinking about guys still kinda feels right. And same about lesbians, too. I am still into certain types of women and certain types of guys, so I am thinking of labeling myself as Bi, but not so sure yet