After some reflection of myself, I find myself sexually attracted to people without establishing a secondary attraction (I am demisexual). BUT I'm not sexually attracted to people in general or any specific person. I'm attracted to the imagery of a person (most of the time they're fictional, sometimes a figment of my imagination). Does that make sense? When I see a person, I don't feel any sort of sexual arousal, but I have no problem fantasizing about people- it's just that the people don't exist or are fictional. I am heteroflexible, so most of my sexual and romantic preference leans towards men. It may have to do with my demisexuality?
uh this is pretty normal, i think, like writers been doin this for milleniums if that is what you're wonderimg
I know this is normal, but I'm wondering if the fascination of fictional people is in the same league as being attracted to real people- if it makes you more or less on the sexual/asexual spectrum or on the sexual orientation/preference spectrum.