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Am I wrong for feeling like this?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Minionluvsu, Jun 29, 2014.

  1. Minionluvsu

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    This isn't my first rodeo with my sexuality, but I feel like the way I'm feeling is.... wrong.

    Cuz I have questioned before, but on something entirely different. And that was the hardest thing I had ever done, and it resulted in an eating disorder and self-harm. But now that I'm questioning whether or not I am any sort of queer.... I don't feel that same level of fear and frustration and over all distress.

    It just sort of feels like, "Okay, it's possible, so now what?" Am I wrong for feeling like this? Am I not truly questioning because I don't feel the same as I did before? :bang: :help:
     
  2. MarcelGB

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    You shouldn't feel wrong about that. We all have emotions. We all human, if you weren't dealing with this feelings you would be not human. I suggest you to focus on other things, and when you feel this guilt think of what would be like if you weren't feeling this way.
    You have to accept these feelings and it's normal. I've been dealing with doubts if I was gay through my childhood. I don't blame myself, I blame one person and straight porn to make me think I'm straight or at least lead me to think other things. Now I need to educate my sexuality with girls and build this sexuality that I feel empty with men. I thank god that I've never had a relationship with a girl, I would hurt the girl and myself.Don't feel wrong about it, I even had a psycho break and depression...and I go to therapy. I know is hard cause the society and religious views....accept these feelings and be open with sharing them with your friends or family. Be happy and you know you have a friend here. :slight_smile: