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Confused about something

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by desiringshadows, Jun 30, 2014.

  1. desiringshadows

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    I like to receive oral sex but I identify as asexual. Does this mean I'm not asexual ?? does that mean I just have a low libido? please help, I'd like to know! thanks in advance.:smilewave

    (oral sex is the only type of sexual contact I prefer. no making out, vaginal sex, anal sex,etc.)
     
  2. RainbowGreen

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    Asexuality is the absence of sexual attraction to others. What are you attracted to in oral sex? The act or the person doing it? If it's more the act, then you still fit the description of an asexual since it's more the act than the person doing it. (Don't feel pressure to label yourself either way)
     
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    Yes, it is the act. & thank you so much! I'll keep with the asexual label. :grin: