I'm not sure what I am. I've only ever had crushes on boys, and I've even tried dating 2! Both of them I liked very much and were wonderful kind people. I just wanted to be near them. (They were both also quite girly as well) But when it got time to get more serious, I couldn't bring myself to even hold hands! I felt like a total bitch, and eventually broke it off. Saying "I just wasn't ready" Exept for the abs, I find the male form pretty repulsive, and body, facial hair- just ew! Females on the other hand, I check out and fantasize and find it gorgeous and want to do stuff to them. But I've never had a real crush on a girl. All the girls I know are either my good friends, or totally obnoxious. (Sometimes both) so, all in all, I've had a bad experience with boys but no experience with girls. I like the comfort of labels, and don't want to continue breaking my friends hearts. :help: