so.. i never thought i would doing something like this i'm very nervous and very scared right now i feel like there will be someone just going to say that its just a phase.. to be honest i dont feel like it is a phase i've questioned myself many times but just couldnt accept it. i think i might be bisexual or just confused im not sure either i dont know how to feel at the moment my heart is racing. im not sure how im going to start, currently i have a boyfriend which i love alot we do have sex and i do enjoy it. i've been in love with quite a few boys before and some have hurt me alot and i feel like if i was with a girl i wouldnt be this hurt... m started to feel as im attracted to girls well starting to realised it i've always fantasize about being with my best friends since i was a kid holding their hand hugging them or even kissing when i watch porn the only porn that can turn me on is lesbian porn all i ever fantasize about is being with a girl... i keep telling myself that it just a phase and maybe its my hormones or something.. but i do like having sex with my boyfriend also lately i've been feeling emotional towards girls and i felt like i actually loved her and she was my best friend but we're not close anymore shes more interested in boys which sort of hurt me a bit ... im not sure what to say but i feel like this is probably a phase or something idk i feel so confused and sad
Hey welcome to EC. Questioning is a really tough time and the only thing you can do is wait and see. But I will say this; girls can cause just as much heartbreak as boys, unless you don't have strong romantic feelings for them. If you are romantically more interested in guys, then your heartaches and breaks will be worse. Either way, this is a good thing. You're on the road to self-acceptance and happiness, even if it turns out that you're straight.
OH MY GOD I feel exactly the same! I hate thinking that what I'm feeling doesn't matter because it's 'just a phase' like everything you experience before you're 20 is open to doubt. I would say that you could be Bi, but I think the only way you'll know for certain is if you experiment. I am so confused myself, I'm glad I'm not alone!
I may be wrong but this make me think it's probably not just a phase. I don't find porn to be the best indicator of one's sexuality but who you fantasize about is revealing, I think.
If it were me, I would say you are probably bisexual. A good indicator is that well, you are fantasizing about girls and crushing on them to the point you are definitely not straight, but if you have an attraction to your boyfriend and enjoy the sexual relationship, you're definitely not a lesbian either.
