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I think I'm pansexual but I've never had a crush on a girl?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by echevarrias, Jul 15, 2014.

  1. echevarrias

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    Hi, I'm pretty young, nearly 14, and I've only ever been interested in boys. This past year, I found myself wanting a relationship with a girl, and I've been less interested in boys. I feel like I want to be in a relationship with a girl, but I have never actually had a huge crush on a girl before. Sure, there have been times when I thought, 'She's cute' and stuff like that, but I've never been completely obsessed with a girl. I have had a crush on an agender person before. I'm so confused, but I think this makes me pansexual?
     
  2. drwinchester

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    Well.... Honestly, you have to ask yourself- would you really be opposed to identifying as straight if you've never liked girls? Sexuality doesn't have to be a rigid black and white thing yet it's perfectly okay to be straight/gay/bisexual/pansexual/etc. You might be straight with exceptions, such as your agender friend you mentioned.