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Bi leaning gay?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by BobJones, Jul 19, 2014.

  1. BobJones

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    I'm 18 years old and yes I have posted here before.... Anyway, I have mainly had crushes on girls and a few on guys. My crushes on girls were a lot stronger romantically, like, I would lose all thought or feeling or concern about everything and that girl would be the only thing on my mind, and they had a sexual aspect... Like when I was cuddling with my girlfriend, I felt a tremendous sense of love along with sexual arousal. The thing is, with guys, the sexual feeling is a lot stronger but I felt a very weak romantic feeling. I find many girls cute and attractive and they sexually arouse me. I find fewer guys cute and attractive, but when I do, it's a stronger sexual feeling. I wouldn't mind having sex with either gender, both would be pleasurable but with a man it would be more pleasurable. I can be a lot more romantic with a woman and I could have a relationship with either sex but I foresee one with a girl to last longer. Also, my attractions, having ups and downs, have otherwise remained consistent since I was 14.
     
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    Well, i don't really understand what's your question.

    You are bisexual, apparently, with the particularities that you mentioned. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Sexual orientation is like the foundation of a cake, and on top of that, you can have many more layers.

    These layers include romantic orientation.

    What you're describing sounds like you are heteroromantic, where you're more romantically attracted to women.
     
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    I was just wondering if bisexual leaning gay would be accurate
     
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    I'd think so.