I never found topless guys or gay porn arousing. Im 32 and first looked 7yrs ago. Letely I seem to be getting more aroused to it after years of finding it boring. Is this normal or have I trained myself to like it by keep checking my reactions by looking at it? I am convinced Im gay now after all my life thinking I was straight. It seems that my groin is reacting to anyhting remotely gay. Did you guys who came to the conclusion you were gay in your 20's and 30's suddenly start finding guys a turn on or was it more gradual and did it get stronger and stronger?
As someone just on the starting end (or maybe there's nothing to start) I'm going to say that in my case it would or will be gradual. How did it take so long for you to realize? I hear people swear blind that if you don't already know during puberty you're not the real deal, or just some kind of complicated fluid thing.
