Hello, I dont know if I'm posting at the right place but, I want to talk about something maybe one of you will have an answer or an idea about it. Well like I said in my presentation, I am a genderfluid because I was a man in an ancient life not so far from this one, and I was bisexual like I am now, why it is important to say, because I was very open mind and most of time I was not in any relationship cause I was a drug user and my life was a real mess. I was absolutly free to all that come to me. Its why now I am a bit confuse in the differents way I could choose, I really don't know how to propose it to someone cause I am in a relation ship. Anyway, I am a masochist, and like I said I am in relation ship with a boy who dont feel really fine about doing this (the 'sadochist' role) and we've been talking about a threesome with another girl but I am really unsure how to choose someone who will understand the way I would like to do it. My boyfriend is aware that I want to do this 'fantasm' and its okay with him. So I want to know how can I come to it, and being clear about it with someone and be sure that the person is a person that I can trust?? Its also important to say that I am a very introspective person who dont go see people, I am not the kind of person who tell this thing openly and to everybody. Thank you, I hope you will take this well, thank you for not judging me I am what I am.