Loving strangers?

I know there are a lot of songs about this very thing happening so no doubt it does happened to other people

I can't think of any off the top of my head -.-

If I ever got out of the house I'm sure I would have experienced it, too

 

Well, not precisely the same thing, but I met my current [and forever] girlfriend on a chat site that pairs you up with a stranger to talk to [the quality really, really varies; hateful trash there is abundant]. I fell in love with her before I even knew what she looked like, and we've been together for nearly three years now. <3

 

I mean, someone's girlfriend/boyfriend was at one time a stranger to them, right? I usually admire and get all giddy inside when I see a cute guy walking by. He's still a stranger in my mind, because I have no idea about his personality and my attraction to him is merely at the surface. If I talked to him over coffee and then we chatted some more, thus finding out that he's a total sweetheart and intellectual, then he's not a stranger anymore, in my opinion .

 

It's kinda different from me. Like I see someone in a public place and I begin to unconsciously fantasise about us getting married and having kids and oddly enough I only do this to girls and I'm gay..

 

This happens to me. I see this cute girl and i'm just gone. Completely lost, staring at her, My chest feeling all bubbly, and just so foucused on her.
It has happened probably 3-4 times, wich i think is a lot. I remember this one girl i just, OH god i couldn't stop thinking about her for days. Haha.

 

Yea sometimes. Some girls aren't that pretty actually but they got sth that can't be explained. And then there's some kind of connection. Maybe not on both sides equally but there is this sth, you know?

 

No... I never really experienced that and I admit that I find strange the fact that some people can feel that when the meet complete strangers. Sure, I've already saw a beautiful woman and loved looking at herói, but there were any romantic/sexual thoughts in my mind while this happened.

 

Sth = something.
Or did you mean the "definition" of my something?

 

Yeah, I get this feeling at least once every few weeks. I'll see a guy, and suddenly it feels like I've been hit in the side of the head with a brick. I see stars and my face gets all hot.

 

I so relate to the eyes part, there really is that unique sparkle in good people's eyes and it's truly captivating :icon_bigg

 

This happened to me so much before I started dating my girlfriend! Some people just have something magic about them that captures my attention.

What I'm really curious about is if someone has ever felt this way about me! I doubt it, but I would be so flattered if they did.

 

Interestingly enough, this mostly tends to happen with chicks. I'll see guys and be able to appreciate them, but never really get much of a physical reaction when talking to them or seeing them. Whereas girls, it kinda slams me in the face and I kinda think "OH LAWD CUTIE PIE ALERT" and then generally get too nervous to talk to her.

This actually happened a few days ago. First day of segment 2 driver's ed, and everyone was getting signed up. This girl walked in, and I couldn't help but stare and get butterflies. She was lovely, pixie cut hair, black dress, cute voice. I didn't get to talk to her all that much, because the class was only three days (and I'm a shy little idiot). But when I complimented her dress on Day One, I noticed that her eyes were two different colors and nearly melted right there on the sidewalk. :lol:

Strangely enough, I don't really believe in love at first sight, more like lust at first sight. I mean, I don't know this stranger, how could I possibly love them? It's different for everyone though I guess.