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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by savy13, Jul 23, 2014.

  1. savy13

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    i am just so confused right now. I am pretty sure I am bi but more leaning towards lesbian. I just am having a hard time excepting it. I guess i am seeking people to talk to about this because I don't know what to do. I have been denial since I was 11 , I was afraid of people thinking I was a lesbian so I would make sure I always made comments about how that 'oh that guy is hot' kind of thing so much I don't know If i believe it I don't even know if I am attracted to men or if I just feel I should be. I jut don't know how to accept my self , I don't know if I am Bi or a Lesbian. This realization frietens me and I just do not know what to do.


    Sorry if that had a lot of grammar mistakes or if it didn't make sense it was just so hard for me to write.
     
  2. BlueCover905

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    When I was the younger I had the same problem. I would date girls to hide my sexuality and deny myself. The best advice I can give you is to ease into the lifestyle. Maybe try to get a girlfriend who will assist you through this transformation and help you accept yourself. Also your on a forum of tons of people who will accept you for you, no matter if you are bi or lesbian.