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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by markosss, Jul 25, 2014.

  1. markosss

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    All of my life I was attracted to the same sex.last week I dont feel attracted by anything.is this normal? Am I asexual?I had a crush on a boy but now I dont feel nothing about him (im not sure about this)
     
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    have you been stressed lately that can sometimes affect your hormones plus this can sometimes happen depending on age
     
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    In 17 years old and yes I am really stressed these days :frowning2:
     
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    oh did you feel allot of attraction to guys when you were younger?
     
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    Yes I was always attracted to guys.
     
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    I wouldn't worry about it if it's only last week. Sometimes you get dips in your attraction, if you're stressed a lot then you've probably got a lot on your plate so other people aren't high up on your priorities list. Or it could be a simple natural dip in your libido. It's normal and I think everyone goes through it at some point or another (I have on some weeks). Unless it goes on, it sounds perfectly normal and nothing to get too worked up about. If you think you are stressed maybe look into that.
     
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    I guess the only thing I can do is wait to see if I will feel attraction again. The truth is I dont know if I want to feel it again...im confused
     
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    Maybe your body, and / or mind, just needs a rest for a while. Sex is a wonderful dimension of life, but it's not the *only* dimension of life. Maybe take this time to explore a few other aspects of life. And remember that worry only makes things worse...so relax. Your condition is not life-threatening :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I am allowed to joke about it, because the same thing recently happened to me - I can no longer get interested in any kind of porn at all, not male, not female, not gay, not straight. I'm finally done with porn. Back in the days of my deepest addiction to it, I never thought this day would come. But, here it is: I have no interest in it, it bores me. So as currently I am also a bit isolated, my sex life just went from one hundred to zero over the course of a week. So I can relate.
     
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    Yes thats what im going to do! Relax and see whats happens. Thanks everyone