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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by bearhugs, Aug 1, 2014.

  1. bearhugs

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    Hi :slight_smile: I just joined this forum today, it looks really rad. I know that I'm too young to set my sexuality in stone, but I know that my feelings are not "just a phase". My brain is telling me that I like girls, so I like girls. Don't tell me I don't know what I want.
    Anyways, I've liked guys before, but my friend showed me a picture of a dick, and I feel scarred. I don't really want that in my vagina :/
    I can imagine myself with a guy or a girl, but never sexually with a guy. (I'm in high school, if that helps) I just want some advice on how to really " label" my sexuality, and how to realize who I am... Thank you in advance, I can already tell that this forum might be helpful! :slight_smile: ♥ byee
     
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    Hello bearhugs (haha, nice nick),

    You aren't really young to think about that. There are people who realize they aren't straight at the age of 12~13.

    Well, to me, you are either a lesbian or peraphs Biromantic Homossexual. That means you are attracted to both genders romantically, but only to women (in your case) sexually.

    If you find labels too confusing, don't worry about them. You don't need to label yourself if you don't want to.

    A great "bear hug" (*hug*) for you, and welcome to Empty Closets!
     
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    Thank you :slight_smile: it's really nice to be viewed equally, and I think I've mostly come to terms with the fact that I'm 95 percent gay :grin: I feel welcomed and comfortable already, I think I'll be a regular on this forum! Thanks again!
     
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    Again, welcome! Haha, it gave me a smile to see your happiness in this post, lol :grin:

    We are here if you want to chit-chat or if you need advice!
     
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    :slight_smile: