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Questioning my sexuality

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Lifequestions, Aug 3, 2014.

  1. Lifequestions

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    Hi anyone who reads this,

    I'm a 16 year old from Canada. My whole life I have though of myself as straight. However just recently, at random a thought popped into my head asking myself if I was gay and ever since then I keep questioning myself. I have always found girls attractive and, a couple times when I hugged a really good looking girl , I got a little "stiffer" if you know what I mean. However I know when a guy is good looking . I've never hooked up with one, kind of poor in that department . When I masturbate , I always think of girls and if a guy pops in to mine I'll just think wtf. My brain just keeps asking myself am I gay? I explored a little and I watched a little gay porn and at the beginning I was grossed out but then I was like well whatever. I have no problem with anyone who isn't straight because I frankly don't care if you are straight, gay or whatever. The thought in my head just keeps coming back , asking myself if I am in face homosexual.

    I just keep questioning myself and I want a extra opinion. Thanks for all your help :slight_smile:
     
  2. Budweiser

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    Have you ever heard of the Kinsey Scale? Gay, Straight, and Bi are unfortunately not rock solid things for everyone. So it's possible for you to be bi with a preference for women, for example. You might be a 2.5 like me. At this point it seems like I'm bi with a preference for men. However, if you look up another term, Sexual Fluidity, it gets worse. Because you can move along the scale throughout your life. Isn't that awesome?