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How do I know if I'm gay?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by notsure13, Aug 5, 2014.

  1. notsure13

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    Hey! Im new here. Im a 19 year old girl. I think I may be gay. I have a boyfriend though. It super confusing. Ive had another boyfriend before this one and with both, I do not feel sexually attracted to them. I don't know if its just because they aren't right for me or if it's because I'm actually gay. I don't know what to do.
     
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    Hello and welcome to EC! :smilewave. I think that your question should be posted in the sexual identity and expression section in order for you to receive more accurate responses and the help that you need. Good luck :slight_smile:.
     
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    Im also new here, and i just came to my senses
    if you feel like wanting to kiss a girl. or have sex then your gay.
    my life isn't an empty closet but i joined the website for courage.
     
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    It's hard to tell if your gay but everyone here is friendly and will answer any questions you have, I hope you get the answers you want.
     
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    Well do you feel sexually attracted to girls then?
    You might also be asexual, if that isn't the case.
    How about romantic and physical attraction?
     
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    Are you romantically and/or sexually attracted to girls? Or just not attracted to guys?
     
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    Do you love your boyfriend?
     
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    Re: How do I know if Im gay?

    do you feel any attraction to girls that you see?
     
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    I find guys good looking, but I feel like I am more attracted to girls.

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    More as a friend

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    yes I do
     
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    Then he probably shouldn't be your boyfriend.