I'm came out as gay 3 months ago. When I'm out in public places, I generally look at guys. Sometimes I do look at girls and find the attractive ones...attractive. I've never dated a girl before and is currently dating a guy (my first). Whenever I'm checking guys out, I always look at their asses first and compare theirs to mine. I'm a bottom and still a virgin so I'm not completely sure. Whenever I'm checking a girl out, I always look at their boobs. The thing is I don't find vagina attractive and would never have my mouth or dick near it. I've never try it before so I don't know. Am I a bottom or a versatile bottom? Am I just physically attracted to girls? Or is it also sexual attraction? Am I gay or Bi? Am I a 6 or 4/5 on the Kinsey scale? How can I be Bi if I see myself as a total bottom? p.s. Right now, I still see myself as gay. I'm just wondering if I have a little heterosexual tendencies.
Try not to get hung on definitions. They end up being more about fitting into categories instead of being yourself. You may somewhat adhere to categorization but you are not a category or a statistic you are a person. Be yourself. (*hug*)
