Not only am I coming to terms with my lack of awareness of my own sexual identity, but I recently learned that there are a significant number of people I come into contact with every day who are gay. The person who revealed this to me was discrete, not naming names. I'm left wondering how I have been missing all this? Anyone else find themselves in this situation? And a more important question, how can I figure out who these people are? My eyes are more open (to myself anyway) and I really want to know who around me might be welcoming.
That sounds just like me. It was like running into a brick wall with me. It was not there one second and the other it was.
