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Talking to a crush?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by EpicConfusion, Aug 23, 2014.

  1. EpicConfusion

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    So there's this really cute guy named Sam in my welding class, and chances are he's not gay or bisexual, but I want to talk to try to make friends with him and see what happens. I don't know anything other than his name, but I'm just going to give it a try. Is there a way that i can make it obvious I find him attractive without making him freak out if he's straight? Got any tips or excuses to talk to him? He's a new welder and I have been in the class for 3 years now so I might be able to make the excuse of teaching him.
     
  2. Dakeli27

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    Just try to befriend him for now. You'll get close and either realize he's not someone you want to be around or you'll become friends. You'll eventually learn whether or not he's gay, bi, or straight, and if he's straight, then once you're close enough to trust him, do as I suggest with people who have a crush on their friend: just tell him. Explain that you know he isn't attracted to you, but that you still like him. It'll help you deal with your feelings and let him know how you feel.
     
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    Thanks for the advice Dakeli :slight_smile:
     
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    Hmmm.

    You're just like my straight girl-friend. She likes a guy, but the problem is, he's gay.
    She befriended him BUT she never told him she likes him because she wants to be
    friends with him.

    I know it's hard for you to like someone who's not gay or bisexual.

    But since you don't know yet, try to check his actions when you hang with him. If
    he looks uninterested, then sorry, pal, you have to move on.

    (sorry for my english)

    You're not the only one in the world who has been into this situation, i've been in this
    situation, not only with guys. It hurts a lot. I know the feeling.

    Stay strong and await for the one!!! :slight_smile: i'm sure he'll come and he'll be hella handsome!!!! ^_~
     
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    Thanks Yanna I appreciate it :slight_smile: