Sometimes when I masturbate I like to think about two men having sex even though I've come out as a lesbian. Sometimes I fantasize about a girl getting screwed by a man too. I just need to know if this is odd or if it's okay? I don't know what it means as far as my sexuality. I would never want to have sex with a man, though. Please help?
Well, plenty of straight girls enjoy lesbian porn so, I see nothing wrong with you at all. Sex is weird and hard to explain so pretty much anything goes.
I'm sure it's fine. Have you heard of the "what porn you watch doesn't determine your sexuality" thing? This is the same thing. You're just conjuring images to help you get off. You aren't imagining yourself actually in the act. If you see yourself having sex with a man, though, it's something to consider, but you mentioned you would never see yourself having sex with a man. So I guess that's that.
Not weird to me, as I also have fantasies about gay male and hetero couples as well as lesbians, but I am about 99.99% sure I don't want to have sex with a man. Fantasy isn't always consistent with what you want to actually do in real life.
I used to successfully watch lesbian porn, sort of, so meh. Look at bonobos, we share a lot of genetics with them, sex is more a social things for them, so heterosexuals will engage in homosexual activity and vice versa, maybe humans are more like that and just not admitting it.
