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Still so confused

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Squichy, Aug 31, 2014.

  1. Squichy

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    I've been questioning for almost 3 years now and I'm still confused. (I'm going to try to make this short because it's almost 3am now)

    I had little crushes on guys in middle school and on one in 3rd grade, but those didn't even last long. So the beginning of 6th grade I started to have these really strong feelings for this girl, I remember that I thought she was just beautiful, then later on I started to like her even more and I wanted to be with her (I never had these feelings for guys)
    So I kinda figured that I wasn't straight. I didn't really care because I've known that being gay is ok since I was like 6 or 7 (Oh I'm 13 btw). So anyways I watched a lot of coming out stories on youtube and realized that I was going through the same thing that they were.
    So summer of 6th grade I started to overthink it and still continue to question my sexuality. 7th grade I still continued to like girls and I hadn't like a guy in almost 3 years.

    I definitley find girls more physically attractive, like I'll see a girl and I'll be like ''Damn she's hot'' I don't say it outloud though.
    There's guys I find cute and all but I just don't find guys attractive.
    I think about kissing girls and all, to be honest it just makes me happy, when I think about it with a guy I'm just like meh.

    What do you guys think it sounds like I am. Oh and lol.... when I was 7 I would find girls to be hot, and I would hate when my mom or my sister would talk about boys and say stuff like you'll have a bf one day and I would think ''Welp, I don't want a boyfriend.''
     
  2. BobJones

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    By what you´ve said, I would say that you are, indeed a lesbian. It´s perfectly ok, though. It may change, but you are most likely homosexual.