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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by unsure817, Aug 31, 2014.

  1. unsure817

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    I am 25 and still not sure if I'm bi gay or what. I have found guys to be hot especially when they are fit and muscular. I get off watching gay porn. I have dated women and have been intimate with one but did not ejaculate any of the times we were together. I find women really attractive but just don't know what I am
     
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    Heya unsure817! You say you find men to be hot and girls to be attractive. Do you feel the same kind of attraction to both?

    Watching porn doesn't always define your sexuality properly. E.g, one could be gay but dislikes gay porn and watches straight porn instead.

    I can't tell why you didn't ejaculate. It could be because you did not find the women attractive. Or it could be because you might be gay.

    Would you accept yourself if you were not straight? If not, why not?

    Cheers!
     
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    I find both sexes attractive but would never be intimate with a guy, because of this, I class myself as gay. I think it comes down to who you picture yourself with in 10 years. Are they male or female?

    Hope this helps!
     
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    I do feel a very similar attraction to both. I've always suppressed trying to hookup with a guy. I see myself with a woman in the future. Maybe I am just denying who knows.
     
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    That's indeed an interesting thought. I simply wouldn't care (and count myself as bisexual).

    unsure817, you see yourself with a women in the future, but you state you surpressed hooking up with a guy. If you feel an urge to do this, don't surpress it. You might regret that later in life if you do so.
     
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    On some sites to date or hookup with a guy