I'm feeling something strong for a very close friend of mine, and I actually wanna confess. But the problem is, he's still dating this other guy, who treatted him badly. He says that now, their relationship is just about being glorified Fu-bus and he doesnt feel strongly for him as he did before, but they still do it. Im not sure if that's the truth or that's what he's just telling us though. Also, Im afraid that if I confess to him, I might lose the friendship. How would I even know if he feels or will feel the same way. Not to mention we've been friends only for 5 months and though he and this guy are dating for 5 months, they have been friends longer. What should I do? Help, anyone please.
I wouldn't back out if I were you, but I'm not sure how you should tell him. You could give him subtle hints first. Say your there to support him, etc. See whether he is into you too. Good luck! (*hug*)