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Could this be an indicator???

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by enjolras, Sep 4, 2014.

  1. enjolras

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    Hey there! So, right now I'm identifying to myself as lesbian but I'm really still unsure about the whole thing. The thing is, I've kissed both men and women (whilst drunk) and found that the majority of kisses I've had with men I've found kinda disgusting and sorta slimy. This hasn't been the case with women; however I don't remember ever having the 'fireworks' effect that people often describe when talking about kissing someone they're attracted to. Was this just because I was drunk, or have I got it all completely wrong? Thanks for the help!
     
  2. Quem

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    It is an indicator, but I don't know how drunk you were.. :icon_wink

    You'll probably get better results when you're sober.

    Cheers,

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  3. Anonymous777

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    If you find disgusting kissing men but not women, it is an indicator.

    As for the "fireworks effect", you could try kissing people when you're not drunk and see what happens.

    Do you find women attractive? If so, this is also another indicator.
     
  4. enjolras

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    Thanks for the help everyone! I'll see how it goes.
     
  5. Anonymous777

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    I always recommend that people take their time to figure out their sexuality. Don't worry about finding a label ASAP.