I started a thread in another section of the forum here - http://emptyclosets.com/forum/gender-identity-expression/150922-really-confused.html The responses I got were that they think my sexual fantasy of being a woman and having sex is a fetish IF I answered the questions honestly. I'm inclined to agree with them, because I don't want to be a woman, except for sex, however I can't get it out of my head that this fetish if it is that makes me part transgender or whatever, although I'm really quite happy being a guy. So I'm wondering if anybody else has this fantasy, if they think I'm in denial, if you read the old thread though I do mention I have other fantasies as well. , it would be nice to read your comments.
I honestly have the same fetish as you, and I honestly don't think it has anything to do with being trans. Maybe some gay people are curious about straight sex with the gender they're attracted to? Being trans is different because It's how you feel on the inside and generally comes with some sort of discomfort.
If you only want to be a woman during sex, you're probably not transgendered. Most transgender people experience some degree of social or body dysphoria, and desire to be treated as their gender all the time, unless they are gender fluid.
I agree, if I understand correctly, I'll admit I've wished I could be the woman in a straight sex scenario before. But I'm not trans.