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can you help m,e to find out if I am heterosexual, bi or gay?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by undecidedgay, Sep 9, 2014.

  1. undecidedgay

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    Hi everybody,
    I'm 27 and I had a lot of sex with girls during my life
    (some was good and some was bad)
    but never with a guy

    some years ago I started fantasizing about having sex with a male,
    at the beginning it was just a little bit but now,
    when I fantasize to suck a cock or to be penetrated, I actually feel very hot.
    I like also to put a dildo on my anus for stimulate my prostate.

    but I still like girls, to kiss, have sex and wherever,
    but sometimes I feel that I want to kiss/suck the cock of some men that I meet in my life

    actually 2 gay men in my life offered me sex
    (they said that they liked me)
    but I refused because at that time I wasn't interested in males

    what do you think?
    am I crazy?

    ---------- Post added 9th Sep 2014 at 09:34 AM ----------

    sorry I post it in the wrong section,
    can an admin move it please?
    (or I can re post it in the right section)
     
  2. jay777

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  3. Omla

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    I'm like u and it totally sucks!
    I slept with many women in my 20s and early
    30s but since starting to feel gay feelings at 20,
    I also have that going on.
    The greatest most happy moments in my life have
    Been spent with women.
    It's unbelievable painful that I can't just have a "normal" hetero relationship untainted by
    All my homosexual fears.
    I might have a conflicted sex preference and have some hocd.
    FUCK!
    Best of luck partner and btw I'm pretty happy and fulfilled despite this annoying
    Bullshit.
    Alan
     
  4. undecidedgay

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    Thanks Omla,
    I also had a lot of very nice times with womans,
    I think the best of my life,
    for sex and for love

    ---------- Post added 10th Sep 2014 at 08:06 AM ----------

    Thank you very much Jay,
    I red a bit,
    and yes, I'm attracted to both genders,
    but to the males is in a more sex way,
    and in female is more in a romantic and love way