I'm like the total opposite of dirty. I don't see abs in men. I don't look for a certain part of their body. What does it mean? Can i be bisexual even then?
Um, yep? That bisexuals are sex fiends is a total stereotype. All bisexuality means is that you're attracted to people of both sexes. You could be completely chaste or a total slut. All bisexuality does is increase your options for partners, it doesn't have anything to do with your level of sex drive.
Dirty as in...? If you're referring to the bisexuals as being promiscuous stereotype, no, bisexual individuals cheat and sleep around as often as their heterosexual and homosexual counterparts. No more, no less.
I'm going to try and not be offended because you probably just heard those stereotypes somewhere else. Yes. There's your answer.
Of course you can. The only thing that you must be to be bisexual is being able to be sexually attracted to females and males.
That's like saying people who date people of any hair color are dirtier than people who only date brown-haired people! That's a total stereotype, of course you can be bisexual without being dirty.
*smells self* Hmm. Yep! It's completely possible. On a serious note, not all bisexuals are sex-crazy. It's just a stereotype, and an unfortunate one at that. I have one of the lowest sex drives out of everyone I know. It's about the attraction. Bisexuals are attracted to people of both genders, and not by any means everyone of both genders.
Um. That's a bit like asking "can you be Greek and not be into anal sex?" Surely, with a bit of thought, you realize that you can't ask a question like that without offending the bisexuals on the site? I've known I was bisexual since I was 16. Met my currently partner at 19, and we've been together monogamously for 28 years at this point. Are we dirty? What does that even mean? If you think ff sex is dirty, then yeah, I guess we are. If you think having fantasies about men while being in a committed relationship is dirty, yeah again. But neither of those things sounds dirty to *me*. So what does "dirty" mean to *you*??
I like to think that my personal hygiene is fine, thankyou very much. But yeah, it is a stereotype that bisexuals are horn dogs that will f*ck anyone/anything blah blah blah I am sure you know the drill, it is just sad that so many people still follow these stereotypes and it is often used as ammunition towards ourselves while accepting who we are, "internalised homophobia" and whatnot.
