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How do you know if you have a crush or it's just affection?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Yanna, Sep 12, 2014.

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  1. Yanna

    Yanna
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    I want to know.
    I don't understand it. Even though i had CRUSHES with boys but the problem is
    that i can't understand it with girls, i can't figure it out. ~:bang:
     
    #1 Yanna, Sep 12, 2014
  2. Fallingdown7

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    For me whenever I have a crush, I deal with the butterfly feeling/anxiety, and wanting to know everything about them/be around them and such. When I admire someone, I don't have those kind of physical symptoms.
     
    #2 Fallingdown7, Sep 12, 2014
  3. DominoSuis

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    Hmm, well...

    I've been head over heels for someone lately. But I just want to adore them if that makes sense, so I'm wondering if it's just admiration.

    Having said that, I'd love to hug and kiss them... but nothing more.

    So your guess is as good as mine, though I'm sure any thoughts of a sexual nature are indicative enough.
     
    #3 DominoSuis, Sep 12, 2014
  4. Leonardo

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    I must admit that all my "crushes" in the past have turned out to just be friendly affection... I think after a while you'd realise that you don't actually want a relationship, you just like the person as a friend. Try picturing yourself as their girlfriend... how does that make you feel?
     
    #4 Leonardo, Sep 12, 2014
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