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Can you be bisexual if you don't get aroused by lesbian porn ?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Yanna, Sep 12, 2014.

  1. Yanna

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  2. ccdd

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    Yes, you can. I don't think that porn is necessarily a good indicator of anything (particularly for women).

    Do you get crushes on women (and men) you know? Do you find women and men you know attractive? If so, then you may be bisexual.

    Good luck figuring it all out - it will get easier! :slight_smile:
     
  3. Fallingdown7

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    Okay this comes up a lot, and It's actually really really common for lesbians to hate lesbian porn. It is not made for lesbians to enjoy- It's for straight men. If anything I'd be more surprised if a lesbian actively liked lesbian porn compared to her disliking it (Not that there's anything wrong with liking it, just making an example that most lesbians I know pretty much hate the stuff, including myself).
     
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    Of course. Porn is not a good indicator of sexuality.
     
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    Bisexual doesn't just mean you have a sexual attraction to someone of the same sex, it could also be that you are romantically attracted to someone of the same sex as well. I am one of the girls who does enjoy watching girl on girl porn, but I also didn't base my decision on me being bisexual simply cause I liked what I saw in the porn.. I based my decision on the fact that I could see myself having a romantic relationship with a woman or a man and sex is just something that would be a bonus in that relationship. I think most porn is directed more towards men because of the fact most men would admit to watching whereas women are more inclined to be shy on the subject of watching porn, so it's made with the targeted audience in mind.

    I think based on the few posts I have seen from you, you seem to be very confused about the subject of bisexuality and about who you are yourself and what you like in relation to men and or women.. Just take your time and don't feel pressured to make a decision straight away.. It has been a good two years for me before I decided to make a decision for sure on who I am and that has only been very recently as in the last week.. Think about what you want from a relationship and when you fantasize about who you want in your future.. Can you see a guy.. Or a girl or possibly both depending on if you find someone who meets your needs and wants.