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How can you tell when your girlfriend is having an orgasm?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by coolasacucumber, Sep 18, 2014.

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  1. coolasacucumber

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    I'm eager to please my future girlfriends as much as possible, and while their tell take signs such as arching their backs, thrusting they ships out, clenching their muscles and shaking have made their orgasms seem genuine and not faked, I'm still paranoid!

    So, what do you or your current/previous girlfriends do when you're/they're having orgasms?
     
    #1 coolasacucumber, Sep 18, 2014
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    when she's shaking like a salt shaker
     
    #2 Rosepetal, Sep 18, 2014
  3. Really

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    I think if you set the mood to "We're going to have fun" and make that your only goal, you'll be less likely to be disappointed. If everyone is feeling good and enjoying themselves, you're more likely to give and receive orgasms. But they shouldn't be the goal.
     
    #3 Really, Sep 18, 2014
  4. coolasacucumber

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    That's a really good point. Too much focus is on the grande finale of the orgasm when the fun of the whole experience should be the focal point xxxx
     
    #4 coolasacucumber, Sep 18, 2014
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    I'm just going to randomly butt in. I wish guys could have orgasms like that... no fair XD
     
    #5 EpicConfusion, Sep 19, 2014
  6. Emotional love

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    You just can! You will realise when she does - trust me!
     
    #6 Emotional love, Sep 19, 2014
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    *Smirks* I know a few that can :icon_wink
     
    #7 MrK21, Sep 19, 2014
  8. Fallingdown7

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    Some guys can! And some women don't have intense orgasms, I never do XD

    I honestly wouldn't worry about orgasm being the main goal, just make sure she's enjoying herself. Trying to put so much focus on it is going to be rather stressful
     
    #8 Fallingdown7, Sep 19, 2014
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