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what am i??

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by wolfy1, Sep 19, 2014.

  1. wolfy1

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    Location:
    Ohio
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    so for a while now i have seen my self as gay, but would this mean im bi?

    i place my self as a 5 on the kinsey scale. i say 5 because i have some kind of attraction to girls.. but i dont fully understand the attraction. like it feels like it might be sexual, but i have zero desires to kiss or have sex with a girl... like none at all. i really fancy the idea of kissing and cuddling and having sex with a guy and only ever see me with a guy...hence the gay part.

    some people have told me that im gay and that i just appreciate a woman's body... maybe but i dont really know. i dont think im bisexual... because not really any of the puzzle pierces fit with that... just an attraction to girls that i dont understand, maybe it is just an appreciation of their looks. any ideas?
     
  2. CoyoteCalling

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    Since you stated that you have no desire to be physically intimate with any girl, I would say it's aesthetic appreciation, not sexual attraction. It's very normal.