Do you (anyone) find naked men attractive

I don't find naked men attractive.. Look at my sexual orientation though! :lol:

I guess I can tell if a man is goodlooking but I don't feel anything looking at them.. If I see a sexy woman naked or clothed on the other hand I go crazy. Adorable human being comes to mind.. and then if I see a girl smile it's like watching a light suddenly evolve around them. With guys it's just a ''meh'' kind of thing. I don't know why more women aren't lesbian :lol: I mean look at women! They are so gorgeous x

I'm sure you will get alot of gay guys saying yes to finding naked men attractive but.. they're gay so. :lol:

 

^What she said.

 

I don't have any physical arousal simply from the sight of a generic naked man. I find my boyfriend arousing, whether naked or clothed, but it's not simply from his looks. I generally am attracted to the female form physically, but my BF doesn't look feminine at all. I don't know why exactly it's different with him, but I've been told it's demisexuality. I've known him for years as just a friend, but never noticed an attraction until about a year and a half ago.

Someone told me once that physical desire isn't always about looks. You can have three different people with similar physical looks, but you might have a strong desire for one, but not the other two. Perhaps there is also a chemical component to attraction also?

 

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depends on the man, on the other hand it depends on the woman too

 

There's a difference between finding a man attractive and being aroused by them... one is "oh, that's a nice looking man," the other is *bulges up in pants*. I will assume you mean the latter.

It mostly depends on the man (and my level of horniness, as well, I suppose). But a naked, flaccid man just standing around or sitting in a non suggestive way doesn't really get me going that much. Personally find guys in underwear more attractive than naked. Also, like I said, depends on the guy... if they are hot maybe I would be aroused a little, still not a lot until things get sexual in nature.

But when things get sexual or physical then I get aroused. I guess my mind does not wander much unless it is a guy I know I may potentially be having sex with in the future, if that makes sense. Because, during sex, physical appearance is somewhat important in arousal. I guess the act of sex (and hard dick vs flaccid maybe) gets me aroused not so much as a non-suggestive naked man, unless that man is really attractive.

This is too complicated!

 

Well, I consider myself bisexual but I think my attraction to men is more of an emotional thing. I'll like the sight of a naked man if it's one I have an emotional attachment to, like my husband. I think I'm more generally attracted to women and am more aroused by the female form, but at the same time, there's some men with personalities that I really like.

 

Austin is right that attraction and arousal need to be separated here. As a lesbian, I can find a man to be beautiful the same way I can objectively see other things to be beautiful (a cat, a mountain, a statue, etc.). Just because I think something is pretty doesn't mean I want to have sex with it.

I have shared rooms and bathrooms with other females my entire life. I don't (usually :icon_wink) need hide to my arousal every time. I'm used to sharing space like that. In other words, you probably won't feel turned on by a naked man doing nothing else but being naked. It doesn't take long to get accustomed to nakedness regardless of your orientation.

I tend to get at least slightly aroused when I see sexual acts/things of any variety. However, there is a difference between getting turned on by sex itself and choosing what you'd prefer to have sex with.

I can get turned on by gay-male porn, but I don't dream of participating. However, I lose my mind in my horniness when I witness women involved in something sexual.

I think what you need to figure out is what merely turns you on verses what turns you into a horny beast! :lol:

 

Well, I'm coming from the standpoint of a bisexual woman.

I don't find the naked man terribly attractive. Honestly. I have to be very, very in the mood otherwise honestly the male package turns me off almost completely. Though, to me a huge part of it is how I feel about the person in particular. Once I care for them emotionally, their body is more of a turn-on as well.

Female bodies, however, are always attractive to me. Wether I'm leaning more towards males or females at that point in time, a naked female body is always attractive to me.

 

I guess the only way I can TRULY sum up how I feel about a naked woman compared to a naked man is.. I look at a womans body like a work of art. When I look at a mans I see it more as a sketch.. not the full picture. Not the very thing that excites my inner attraction to its full potential I guess you could say. I don't know.. I guess it's the Lesbian in me speaking but.. i've even heard straight women agree with me on this.

I always see girls calling eachother really pretty.. doesn't mean they're gay it's just obvious when a woman is strikingly beautiful/attractive. It is the same with men for some people but for me I see nothing too striking. If they have an awesome personality I guess I start to see the appeal to an extent.

 

I have struggled with this for a long time.. I tonight I was a lesbian for so long cause I don't find a man's private area all that attractive even though I do find myself being very attracted to the top half of a man and don't particularly have an interest in being sexually intimate with a man.. However I can see the emotional attraction in a man, which is I still consider myself to be bisexual.. If I met the right man, I might perhaps feel differently about being sexually intimate with a man.. So I don't think not finding a man sexually attractive in that it arouses you doesn't mean anything much as long as you could see yourself still emotionally attracted to a man.. Bisexuality doesn't mean you just have to have a physical attraction to be bisexual. The way I see it, if I can see myself having a romantic relationship with a man or a women.. Then I consider myself to be bisexual.. it is your own decision as to how you want to define your sexuality though. A persons personality can be a big turn on and turn off for me.. That is what I go off more so rather then just straight out looks.

 

It totally depends on the man. Some people are into big bellies, and/or "bear hair", while for me, they do nothing at all. Same thing for women, except personality and expression seems to play a bigger part there.

I will say that for a lot of people questioning their sexuality, it isn't the lack of arousal or interest alone, but that combined with a powerful draw towards the same-sex that throws them off initially. Not all of us had a "just knew" stage early on, and assumed we were just like everyone else, until an event, or series of events, made us reconsider.

Oh, and there are plenty of lesbians who get turned on by gay male porn, as well as straight women who get turned on by lesbian porn. How does that work? Who knows? Women are strange!

 

On occasion I may find a particularly fit man's chest or arms attractive. But the rest of him... not so much. And I don't want to *do* anything with him. It's just like, nice to look at. In comparison, a woman's body, curves, face, even just her hair or her mannerisms can really draw me in. I consider myself gay because I have no desire to be with a man physically, though I do think I have a little more attraction to men than most lesbians do.

 

Half-naked, sure. I'd rather look at a man if he's just wearing underwear than see him completely naked, to be honest. I don't mind complete nudity, it's just, if I don't have to see his junk, then I won't, if that makes sense. :lol: As far as the attraction aspect... Yeah, I've experienced attraction a few times when I see certain shirtless men. Sometimes, it's just appreciation of a nice body, really.

When it comes to girls, I don't mind seeing them naked as much. I'd prefer seeing them in a bra or underwear or something, but it really doesn't matter. The attraction with girls comes easier, to me.

 

I second everything this lady says. ^^^^^^

 

Uhm this is interesting for me I am physically attracted to men but I am sexually interested in females..

If he is a cis guy ...only if he keeps his undies on

Other wise-Drop them trousers <3