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Am I gay

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Curiousgay34, Oct 14, 2014.

  1. Curiousgay34

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    I'm kind of uncomfortable posting this but I'm a 34 year old guy and I'm also a virgin. I've never been with a guy before but lately I'm obsessed with gay porn. Another problem is my private part it's really small the shape of a little boys. Am I gay?
     
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    Hi Curiousgay34,

    Firstly, don't worry too much about sharing. I'm a 30 year old guy, and I've never slept with anyone either. It's taken me a while to work things out, but that's not as unusual as you might think.

    At the end of the day, an obsession with gay porn isn't definitive. You presumably have had some value out of straight porn as well. The most common answer given on these pages is that the biggest indicator of your sexuality is which way do your crushes and fantasies tend to go.

    Obviously the size of your equipment doesn't have a lot to do with your sexuality, but bear in mind that watching porn will give you a false idea of what's normal.
     
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    Curiousgay34 , WELCOME to EC ! Please don't be scared or shy we are here for you and we do not judge. I want to say first off that I have to agree with CuriousLiaison that porn is bad they use all these guys with super big man parts and that is not the way most of us are . Plus it looks smaller to you than it really is ,my doctor told me its an optical illusion so don't worry its not the size that matters it is how you use it . I am going to say this I have never told anyone before I was a virgin until I was in my 20's and so what it does not matter it only shows that you are waiting for the one you truly love !! If you want to be friends with me I would be honored just let me know if you ever need to talk I am here for you !
     
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    Hey Curious... I think you are on the edge of self realization... whether you are gay bi or straight I don't know... but exploring the possibility of it is the first step... now you need to dig deep and figure out how you truly feel. Take the porn out of it... and realize is it a guy or a girl... or both that you would want to have a deep meaningful relationship with. Good Luck, and if you need someone to talk to I am here.
     
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    If we dissected the word "porn" into it's respective categories, you'd get a pretty long list. Many people who associate gay porn with gay people are missing a huge part of what it has to do with your orientation means. What I'm talking about is LTR (long term relationships). So you've mentioned that you are attracted to the male body, but have you ever thought about liking them for who they are as a person, and not as a figure?

    It's EASY to be attracted to someone's looks/body, and porn will provide you with that. The search bar is all you'll need for the site to show you your fantasies.

    So the grey area here is asking yourself: where is your emotional attraction directed to? Females? Males? Or both?
     
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    Maybe, maybe not. Size of your penis is irrelevant.

    Imagine you see an attractive male/female couple walking on the beach in swimsuits. Which one do you look at?