Ok, I am bisexual I mean I am romantically attracted to both men and women. I've never been able to figure out what I am attracted to. Its so random. I'm not into any features, including those typically associated with sex. I've never turned around to check out an ass. I just get these crushes. As far as sex goes. Its never on my mind. Its not a need and never has been. to me its just something that is done between two people in love. I have been in love and had sex. Even after I'm like ok lets go watch tv. It was ok but I never feel any passion or romance. My mind just goes ok, do this, do that, and we're done lets go do something else. I guess I have always been a person that conforms to those around me and I just don't want to conform anymore I want to be me. But I need help figuring out who ME is. So confused anything would help.
Thinks for the advice. I guess i'm just trying to put a label on it because it will make it easier to talk about with some close people I plan to come out to. I have never came out to anyone in my family before even though I have multiple gay or bisexual relatives. It's not like I think they will make a big deal out of it but i'm sure some of you know how it is. I just want to be able to answer questions they may have, IDK I've never came out to anyone i'm close to before. Any time I was myself I was living alone on the other side of the country in college or working.
Have you ever heard of the terms Grey-A or Demisexual? I don't know if either term might better suit you and how you feel.
