Well here goes... I've known for a while that I'm definitely attracted in every way to women,I.have had boyfriends but never really done anything for me. The problem I have is I'm a very nervous and shy person and am scared/extremely nervous to even approach or speak to a girl also the prospect of being intimate terrifies me purely because I have no clue what I'm doing. So I'm certainly in a dilemma because I would love to find someone. Any advice welcome:icon_bigg
Try online dating sites? looking for women, that way you can talk to women online, have that "behind the computer screen confidence" get to know they, then when you're comfortable, meet them. Safely of course. Or if you are just nervous over the idea of talking to a girl who you know is attracted to you, just pretend you're talking like friends. Just my two cents.
Even the thought of that makes me nervous. I suppose I need to get out of my comort zone but find it difficult to.thank you for you two cents much appreciated
Re: definitely attracted to women but scared any advice Well don't be scared... what about kissing... caressing, exploring each one's bodies, taking it from there... you know what you like, so she might like that, too... and you can communicate... just relax and enjoy...
I'm in a very similar situation and I am shy too. Just thought I'd let you know that you're not the only one
Thank you. Glad to have someone who can sympathise with this situation because it's very frustrating :/
If you widen your circle of friends and become comfortable with being around lesbian women as friends the rest will fall into place. Take it one step at a time. If you are shy it will build your confidence and you will learn about the gay community at the same time. There is a lot to learn…believe me! Baby steps...
