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Can emotional turn into sexual? Or vice versa?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Jax12, Oct 22, 2014.

  1. Jax12

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    For me, emotional/Romantic attractions and LTR are only present in girls. I'll find a girl beautiful and I sometimes get that attraction where I want to be with her, not just have sex with her. I don't find every person with a certain body type attractive, but as soon as I get to know them, that's where sexual attraction might kick in. I guess you can say it takes a bit of effort for me to look at them as an object of pleasure.

    However, sexual attraction/lust is only present in men (older men, not guys my age).
    No emotional/romantic attraction here. Absolutely none. It's not that I'm rejecting it, it's because I don't feel it, like I do with girls. When you find someone interesting, they sort of stop you for a bit, and just make you think about that person as a human being, not an object of pleasure. I don't feel that with men, let alone guys my age. I could care less about their name, their likes/dislikes, family members, etc. I JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND THAT'S IT. Lol. Kind of like porn, if you will. Domination seems like a huge turn on for me.

    I'll be blunt here: older men in gay porn is quite arousing to me; in straight porn, old + young is my preference. I find lesbian porn boring because there's no penetration going on. Maybe if they had a strap-on it would be more exciting!

    And I also wish I was that specific guy, having that body and doing it with the bottom/girl.

    So, is it possible? Can emotional attraction turn into sexual? Can it also be sexual attraction that turns into emotional?