I am not straight. That I am sure about because i feel nothing when it comes to girls. I have always thought of myself as Gay as i have had many gay crushes throughout my life. but lately I am not even sure if I am. I am attracted to guys. I want to kiss them, hug them, cuddle with them, sleep with them, hold their hands but that's it. I never feel like getting nude, sucking their dick or getting sucked, fucking or getting fucked...i dont even like holding their dick. while i do like running my hand through their clothed body. I have had sex with different strangers and every time i would not enjoy it. I have tried sucking, getting sucked, getting fucked, fucking..etc but nothing worked for me. what i did enjoy was sleeping with them, hugging, cuddling, and stuff i discussed above. I am so confused right now. I am 100% attracted to guys but i am just not able to enjoy the sex. I dont know what's wrong. is this common for a gay guy? Sorry for my poor english, I could have articulated it better but english is not my mother tounge
So it sounds like you're interested in men romantically, but not sexually? If so, this could be labelled as homo-romantic. If you've never experienced sexual attraction or the desire to have sex with either gender, you might want to look into asexuality.
