I am a girl, a virgin and have never felt that i am a man. That being said i am attracted to both men and woman romantically and sexually but in all my sexual fantasies i am always a man with these people. In my every day life I am a woman and proud of it but I just don't get turned on unless i read about and think about man-on-man or man-on-woman where i am the man. When i think about relationships i see myself as a woman in a relationship with either a man or woman. Am i alone in this, is this even a sexuality or am i just messed up. Any help would be amazing. :help:
It does sound more like bisexuality to me then anything else, a lot of men and women find they fit that label, it is something that you might wanna think about a bit more, and then make a decision, but don't feel you need to label yourself either.. Some people aren't comfortable with labels and don't feel you need to force yourself or pressure yourself to come up with a label for yourself.. Just feel comfortable with knowing you could see yourself in a relationship with a man or a woman.
Hello, mindora1853. I would say that you sound bisexual to me since you are capable of being attracted to men and women. I'm bisexual, myself, and have a similar experience to the one you are describing but my fantasies are split: sometimes I imagine myself as a man, other times, as a woman. However, judging by your post, you are satisfied with being a woman in your day-to-day life (I am not and suffer from gender dysphoria).