Hi, I'm new here and just looking for some advice so be friendly I'm in my early 20s and have always identified as straight. I'm physically attracted to women and have only ever had sex with women. The thing is, I've never really felt comfortable in the dominant role. Over the last year or so I've started to watch gay porn and fantasize about sucking cock and receiving anal. The idea of providing pleasure for another man seems so much more exciting to me than what I've experienced. I'm a pretty feminine guy and people often think I'm gay when I first meet them. I'm starting to think that maybe they've always been right... Thoughts from anyone :help:
Well... the question is... you say you're attracted to women, but are you attracted to other men beyond some sexual fantasies?
A friend of mine, he is emotionally/romantically attracted to women but sexually attracted to men; but not vice versa. He identifies himself as bisexual, which by definition involves both romantic and sexual attraction for both male and female. To be honest, I think that LGBT and "straight" are really general labels. Most people, at some point in their lives experience something that deviate from these labels. Looking for the most appropriate label is just a matter of slotting yourself in the one that seems like the best fit by definition. In my opinion, truly straight men do not fantasize providing pleasure to another man.
Could you see yourself dating a man and/or experimenting? Also, have you thought about being in a relationship with a girl, but taking the more submissive role in the relationship, whether just in the bedroom or not?
I could definitely see myself having sex with a guy - I think about it everyday! Whether or not that would lead to a relationship at this stage I don't know... As for taking a more submissive role with a girl, it's just not something that appeals to me at the moment. It's not really even that easy for me to get it up with them!
