I am biologically female but have felt male for years. I am still attracted to guys and I have a guy I really like and I think likes me to. No one in my life knows that I think I mite be trans especially the guy I like. I really like this guy and think if we did wind up together maybe he could change me. Is it ok to date someone when I don't have my gender or sexuality figured out?
I think it's okay to date him, however, I am a bit worried, because you're thinking that he could possibly change how you feel. You are who you are and no one change that, so telling him that you're questioning who you are maybe be a good idea. I, honestly think that dating can make things a bit more confusing, but if he's okay with it then that's even better. Just take your time because there's no need to rush to figure things out all at once.
