Queer as a Community?

I recently started at uni and I joined a sports team that is predominantly filled with lesbians or bisexuals. I never thought of myself as anything other than straight, but I don't know anymore....

After meeting one particular girl, she facebook messaged me and we basically continued chatting for the entire week straight. She then asked for my phone number, which I obviously gave her because she's a really cool person. We still see each other and text, but we do so less often and I kinda miss it. I find her very intriguing, but it's hard for me to wrap my head around how many people she's been with (seeing as I'm a virgin.) She also initiated a conversation about how I viewed the concept of virginity recently. She talks about girls she's hooked up with (and people she wants to) in front of me, and it kinda bothers me, but I try to play it cool. After all, I can't imagine actually hooking up with her myself. She's older than me, and cooler than me, but she says she thinks I'm cool. If I start to say something she always pays attention. I feel like we have some sort of chemistry when it's just us though, and sometimes our eyes lock... it's weird. I feel like I'm reading way too much into this. I don't if she likes me; I don't know if I like her.

Somehow she just gets under my skin. Apparently she was the last person on the team to find out I identified as "straight" and said: "you're not straight." She still claims that. Now I'm questioning my identity, and although every one around me is cool with whatever I choose, I can't bring myself to identify as something-else. As it is people think I'm gay because I hang out with gay people and I went to pride with them--I had nothing else going on that weekend--and I'm totally cool with this.

I also recently became significantly less religious. I still believe in God, I'm just pursuing him outside of traditional means. Instead of being religious, I'm working on being spiritual. This was due to a combination of how my religion addresses homosexuality and other things, but I don't know why this bothers me so much now, since I've had gay friends before.

I've always admitted when anyone was attractive, but noticing beauty and being attracted to a person has always been two separate things for me. I honestly haven't been attracted to as many people as others my age. With that being said, I haven't noticed any hot guys and I'm in a new school. I also haven't made guy friends, something I find very easy. On the other hand, I've made some serious friendships with some girls and have even caught myself admiring their silhouettes or eye color. It's almost like whenever I notice their attractiveness it's from an artistic perspective. It happens all the time and I'm not sure what to make of any of this.