How do you know?

hmm i dont know but i know i like guys two and i had a crush on a woman once but i never had a gf or experiments yet so i am as lost as u are

 

I think you just have to experiment in your mind and think about how what you're thinking makes your body feel. Eventually, you will figure it out! Good luck!

 

This link might help: How to Know If You Are a Lesbian: 9 Steps (with Pictures)
You also stay open to the possibility that you mmight be bi

 

You don't /have/ to label yourself, just go with your natural feelings and don't suppress anything (if that makes sense)

I've never had a relationship with a girl but I still identify as a lesbian because I am sexually and romantically *attracted* to females only. On the contrary, I have dated guys in high school and it felt really wrong and uncomfortable.

Maybe think back on all the people you've developed crushes/feelings for. If you fantasize, does your mind wander to males, females, both? When I did that I realized it was actually all girls and I really only dated guys because I was kind of in denial. Having said that, finding a guy attractive doesn't immediately rule you out. I guess it's just about your typical, usual attractions to people

Sorry I'm really bad at wording my thoughts ha

 

If it wasn't for my first relationship, I would not have started questioning my orientation.

In addition, if I didn't watch porn, then I wouldn't know what type of porn arouses the most. Porn isn't the best indicator for sexual orientation, but if it aligns with who you check out in reality, then that's something for you to think about.

Lastly, if I didn't think much about my attraction to men, then I would not have come to EC.