How do you deal with lust?

If we're talking specifically about sexually attraction, like the body of someone, I find both genders appealing, but more "lust" towards men because of the porn that I've become addicted to. The guys I check out in the real world are essentially the guys that I look for in porn, so that's one of the reasons why I feel comfortable with hanging out with guys my age/body type; they have nothing to do with porn.

First question is why do I stil have these thoughts about girls? Is it possible to "shut off" these thoughts and feelings?

I know it's normal to check out people you're attracted to, but it is becoming an obsession to me. I'll stare at a guys bulge/pecs/etc and get aroused by it. And while I won't be very aroused when I see a girl in a bikini, I can't help but wonder how sex would feel like with girls.

And I'm always checking out men that are either married or seeing someone. How do you guys deal with the fact that you won't get some, for lack of a better word.

 

Yeah besides jacking off to porn, haha I do that a lot.

Now that you mention it, maybe I should experiment with both genders. I mean, my very first relationship (with a girl) wasn't the best. It made me question my sexuality, but is it enough to just base my orientation on one relationship? That I'm not so sure...

And if you don't mind me asking, since you say you are bisexual, how would you describe your attraction to both genders?