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I'm gay , but I have fantasies about straight guys

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by irockyoursockes, Nov 12, 2014.

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  1. irockyoursockes

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    I feel like a lot of other gay guys have thought about this a lot, but I'm not really sure. I'm just wondering if any other gay or bi guys have wanted to like cuddle or kiss a straight guy, maybe even do sexual things with him?

    I sometimes regret having these fantasies or thoughts , because I know they're wrong, and if a guy is straight, he wouldn't want to do any of those things with a guy. It's just the fact that it's taboo that makes me want to do it a lot. Does it seem wrong? :confused: :confused:
     
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    Haha YES omg I crush on straight guys so often XD
     
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    I've heard about that a lot actually. I can't really comment on it too much but it's nothing rare in my experience.

    That said for myself I've never been attracted to gay guys, only straight guys even when I was presenting as a guy.

    For me it was moreso in the way the other person validated myself, I feel feminine and want to be reciprocated in that. Gay men are masculine and want to be validated as men with their men.

    So.. yeah.
     
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    I have crushes with straight guys all the time, but the moment I found they're straight I lose interest
    I feel sexually frustrated yes but I never involve my emotions. In order to fall in love I have to feel desired
     
    #4 edy, Nov 12, 2014
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    I also have crushes on straight guys all tim! Most of the straight people I'm friends with are actually surprisingly willing to hug each other as well, which I've always been really surprised by!
     
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    My current crush is straight... I always get crushes on straight guys!!! :bang:
     
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    I also share this lust for straight men, and I don't know why. Maybe, as you've pointed out, it's due to its taboo nature. I've made a simple experiment: while watching gay porn, I consciously thought "the two men here are gay men and are just having sex because they naturally like it" then I shifted to thinking "one of them is straight, has a girlfriend, but is just 'fooling around' with another guy because, well, sex is physically pleasurable anyway and he might as well be just helping this friend of his sexually, but he doesn't really think much of this" and I noticeably felt more aroused.

    I honestly think this can be quite harmful to me... I really want to know why I'm like this. Does anyone else relate to it?
     
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    I love straight guys unfortunately. It always leaves me feeling crappy in the end. Most gay guys I meet haven't been my type, but I've met plenty straight guys I get along with. Maybe I just haven't met the right one yet.
     
    #8 Andronas, Nov 13, 2014
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