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Not Lesbian enough?!

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by VeddiaVonkin, Nov 13, 2014.

  1. VeddiaVonkin

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    At my school theres really no one i can talk to about the fact im a lesbian. So usually i go online to meet other LGBT members. The shitty thing is even there i feel like im not even lesbian enough
     
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    I'm not sure I get what you're asking/saying. Would you mind elaborating?
     
  3. VeddiaVonkin

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    Basically when Im with or conversing with other LGBT members i almost feel like im a horrible person for being a lesbian because they have it worse and I cant be lesbian enough because i haven't come out yet
     
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    Look... there is no such thing as lesbian enough... or whatever.
    You are you. Do what feels comfortable for you.

    You might think about counseling or talking to someone from an lgbt center.

    Other than that, sometimes people can be peculiar when amongst themselves... like setting standards or having expectations, instead of acceptance... I would look for people who are accepting, and otherwise just relax and have a good time.
    It can take time to figure oneself out, its a process.
    You should do what you are comfortable with.

    And if online, I'd say practise safety... and don't belive just everything that is said :slight_smile:

    (*hug*)
     
  5. stocking

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    Why did they say your not lesbian enough ?:confused:
     
  6. David21201

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    not lesbian enough... huh... weird. honestly theres no such thing to me you are who you are :slight_smile:
     
  7. NamesNotJake

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    Don't let other's tell you you're not gay-enough, not lesbian-enough, trans-enough, bi-enough etc. Being LGBT doen't mean you have to fit all the stereotypes and expectencies from within and outside the LGBT community, just be yourself.
     
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    ^ THIS. Also, you are still relatively young, and just because you haven't come out to your parents does NOT make you less gay! Just be you
     
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    As we all know, you are not a full lesbian unless you make out with 20 women and are certain about absolutely everything!

    It's bull. There is no such thing as lesbian enough-you do you, girl.
     
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    meow i dont care either way