So when I was younger I believed I was lesbian because I always liked girls only in a romantic and sexual way. But now I still only like girls but I have trouble really liking someone without forming a deep connection first. Most people start off liking someone they don't really know and forming a relationship where they get to know someone better. I need advice.
you could be a demisexual lesbian? i found this online "Demisexuals are characterized by a lack of sexual attraction toward any person unless they become deeply emotionally or romantically connected with a specific person or persons. The level of connection it takes for sexual desire to form is dependent on how close the relationship is rather than initial attraction. It is an orientation that is not chosen." maybe look into that. only you can decide what you identify as, but i hope i helped (*hug*)
