I have frequented this site for a few weeks now in regards to my own questioning of my sexuality. I have always found men insanely attractive but since childhood I have struggled with low-self esteem and shyness which led me to still crushing on guys (famous & non-famous ones) but I've always admired other girls since I was younger and I wasn't quite sure what to make of my odd body response to a pretty woman on a television show or a movie. As I have gotten older and felt that I never needed a man to be happy I sometimes worry if my shyness towards the opposite sex has been a true indicator all along. I am a virgin who believes in saving oneself for marriage but growing up going to school in middle school & high school kids called and asked me point blank if I were a lesbian. I was mortified at the time being a teenager and knowing I was truly into Justin Timberlake not Brtiney Spears at that time scarred me from that time to now. I'm an only child adult who worries about my sexuality but didn't question it for real until this year. I also have found myself crushing on some major Hollywood females since this year one being the woman in my avatars and the others shall remain nameless but if I were famous & a certain Lancom Hollywood Oscar darling liked girls and liked me I would seriously consider dating her. I hope I have not bored you all to death and if anyone reads or responds to this I truly thank you from the bottom of my heart.
It isn't a problem to find both men and women attractive. Explore your sexuality without worrying about fitting a certain stereotype or label. Thanks for sharing.
Yeah just explore and see where it leads to. For the past 7 years off my life I've noticed that I kept imagining sex with older men and older men only. It was identical with the porn that I watched at the time. But in terms of feelings I never had any for guys, it was only for girls. So if you look back, before you started judging yourself, who did you have feelings for? And in what way were you attracted to them? Now I'm not talking about whether you think that person is hot or not, but whether or not you had a pull towards that person because of who they were as a person. We can find anyone attractive under the right circumstances, but you'll feel am unexplainable feeling when you're with someone you like. Good luck.
